One of the number one mistakes men make when they are first getting started with sex buddy dating is selling themselves short. What typically happens is that guys come onto the online sex dating scene desperate for sex after a long dry spell. If they play the game right, they get laid pretty quickly. With their immediate sexual needs temporarily satiated, they start slacking off about meeting new women.

This is bad for several reasons. First of all, what if the chick was just looking for a one night stand and has zero interest in being your sex buddy on an ongoing basis? Even if she does want to be your long-term friend with benefits, the fact is that you both have lives outside of getting laid, and there are going to be times when you’re desperate to get off and she’s unavailable. And even if she’s miraculously available every time you call her, wouldn’t you prefer a large variety of women to choose from? Of course you would. Every guy fantasizes about having a lot of sexual partners.

So what can you do to make sure you never find yourself in this situation? You have to know how to play the numbers game, and you have to play it from the beginning. If you do, you will never have any shortage of women on your booty call list. Here’s how it’s done:

Join Several Sex Buddy Sites and Stay Active On All of Them

Start thinking of your membership fees to sex buddy sites as investments. As any good investment manager will tell you, it’s good for your bottom line to diversify your portfolio. You should never have fewer than three memberships to sex buddy sites. Just make sure that you’re choosing wisely. Paying for scam dating sites because you’re not in the know is like flushing money down the toilet. This list of legit sex dating sites will ensure that your money is going towards a good cause; making sure that you have lots of options for sex, anytime you want it.

• http://www.freehookups.com
• http://www.adulthookup.com
• http://www.xxxconnect.com
• http://www.socialsex.com
 

 
Remember, it isn’t enough to just sign up for these sites. You have to take the time to create a great profile. Once you do, you need to stay active every single day to keep your profile high in the search rankings. So be proactive! Contact every single woman in your area that you find sexually attractive. You have nothing to lose, and there is no such thing as having too many women to choose from.

Any time you have a successful sexual encounter with a woman, if she indicates that she’d be open to hearing from you again, make sure you keep her contact information. And even if you don’t hook up with her right away, stay in touch often enough to keep her interested and willing to do it again. Otherwise, she’ll move on to other guys and she’ll be too busy when you want it.

Isn’t It Expensive to Have Multiple Sex Buddy Site Memberships?

Nothing worth having in life is free. And yeah, it can seem like a lot of money up front, but when you break it down, it’s actually a bargain. Let’s say you end up spending somewhere around $150 a month in sex dating site fees. If you were going to bars every Friday night, how much would you spend in a month? Most decent clubs charge an admission fee. Once you’re in, you’ll buy at least a couple of drinks for yourself, and chances are higher than not that you’ll end up buying at least one drink for a woman in the chances of getting laid. Two or three clubs in a night, and you’ve probably dropped at least $75. If you do this every Friday, by the end of the month you will have spent $300 or more. And how many times did you actually end up taking a woman home for sex? None? One? Two if you’re very, very lucky? Yet we don’t blink about doing that, because the money is spent in small increments, so we don’t feel like we’re throwing away huge chunks of money until we do the math.

With multiple sex dating site memberships, your chances of scoring are much higher. Not only that, since new women are constantly signing up for these sites, your booty call list will grow continuously, making each month’s fee more worthwhile than the one before. Think of where you’ll be in a year, when you have a list of a dozen or more women you can call whenever you’re horny, and can not only get laid whenever you want, you’ll have options about who you’re in the mood to be with. I’m willing to bet that the money you’ve spent in bars and nightclubs have never offered that kind of return. This is the numbers game in action. Start playing. You’ll be glad you did.

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