Sex buddy relationships can be difficult to understand. As strange as that sounds, it is true. Most people assume that a sex buddy relationship is super easy because there are no strings attached to the sex. Few realize that there are so many other strings to consider. Because the relationship lacks sexual commitment does not mean it also lacks in respect, kindness, or mutual consent. Sex buddy relationships require a certain amount of maintenance to keep things interesting and fun. If they aren’t fun, interesting and beneficial to you both, why bother? Recently, a rash of sexual misconduct charges have made news headlines and drawn the attention of sex buddies across the nation. How do they effect the rest of us and those of us in sex buddy relationships? The full implications are yet to be revealed.

Sex Buddy Relationships Must Be More Open

All these sexual misconduct clams coming to light means that sex buddy relationships must be more open in their conversations with each other. They have to be sure that they fully understand what the other is saying to them as far as sexual relations and experiences. There is no room for misunderstanding. This responsibility lies with you both. To be clear in your intent and desire and also to validate her wishes and intent. There is noting more erotic than being on the same page.

Sex Buddy Relationships Should be on High Alert

Whenever news stories like these dominate the public consciousness, there are always a few unscrupulous individuals who try to capitalize on others pain and suffering. There are women and men in sex buddy relationships who may do just that. They can take an innocent sexual situation where both partners consented and deliberately turn it into something criminal to cash in on a quick payout. Make sure you trust your sex buddy not to engage in such behavior.

Sex Buddy Relationships Must be on Their Best Behavior

What you once considered a funny dirty joke can now be taken as a serious assault. Catcalls on the roadway are a great example. Women walking by strangers on the road do not appreciate the loud whistles and cat calling of men. Similarly, lewd comments, jokes on appearance or sexual ability or prowess are not at all funny or sexy. All types of people want to be treated as human-beings with emotions and feelings. Sex buddy relationships are no different.

Is This the End of it All?

The charges of sexual misconduct are rampant. People are no longer willing to let anyone else trample their personal rights for any reason. Being in a sex buddy relationship does not give anyone carte blanche to do whatever sexual thing they want to another. Respect and accountability are all still very important, if not more so, than in other relationships. Many people are opting out of having casual sex relationships to avoid any of these issues. Instead, we are seeing an uptick of committed and long-term relationships where partners are surer of the other’s boundaries.

Sex Buddy Relationships Will Change

With all this emphasis on no longer quietly accepting sexual misconduct in our lives, sex buddy relationships are slowly morphing into a more respectful and fulfilling experience. While still not entertaining more commitment, they open up the sexual realm with a complete and total understanding of what your partner wants. It is liberating if daunting at first. Eventually, this metamorphosis will make sex buddy relationships all the more enjoyable for both parties.

News reports and societal outbursts like the metoo movement, should not be the reason we make changes in our lives. They can, however, serve as effective catalysts for personal change that leads to national and world-wide revolution. Using these sexual misconduct claims as a lesson, we can go forth in our own sex buddy relationships to ensure everyone is happy and validated in our wishes and desires. These claims do not have a direct impact on our relationships but do show us an alternate reality than can happen. It is imperative we take these lessons and use them to empower each other and move forward in a healthier, more productive manner for everyone involved.

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