{"id":66,"date":"2014-11-26T00:36:06","date_gmt":"2014-11-26T00:36:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=66"},"modified":"2014-11-29T16:58:26","modified_gmt":"2014-11-29T16:58:26","slug":"chapter7-writting-the-intro-email","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/chapter7-writting-the-intro-email\/","title":{"rendered":"Chapter 7 \u2013 Writing an Intro Email That Gets a 90% Response Rate"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"WritingA lot of guys get disillusioned with sex buddy dating sites<\/strong> when they don\u2019t get the responses they\u2019re hoping for. Sometimes, this is because they are using scam sites. Those guys could do everything perfectly, and they still wouldn\u2019t get a response, because there are no real profiles. But what about the men using legit open relationship sites who don\u2019t get responses? More often than not, it\u2019s not that the sites don\u2019t work, it\u2019s that they don\u2019t know how to work the sites. A big part of the problem tends to be with the type of intro emails they are sending. <\/p>\n

Your intro email creates the first impression women will have of you. In other words, if you screw it up, you\u2019re probably never going to have a chance to redeem yourself, because they\u2019ll never write back and that will be the end of it. This step is all about learning what works and what doesn\u2019t, using real examples from casual dating sites. These proven techniques will help you create an intro email that will get at least a 90% response rate<\/span>, which is way higher than what most men receive.<\/p>\n

What Not to Do<\/h3>\n

These intro emails are all wrong. I can guarantee you with 100% certainty that these messages never work. Read them carefully, and make sure that you don\u2019t make any of the same mistakes.<\/p>\n

Example #1<\/b>
\nYou\u2019re so hot, I got hard as soon as I saw your profile pic. I was stroking my cock and imagining what your pussy is going to feel like. I attached a picture so you can see how much you turn me on and what you have to look forward to. I\u2019m going to fuck you so hard, you won\u2019t be able to walk straight for a week. Hit me up. I\u2019ll make it worth your time.<\/i><\/p>\n

* This one will be deleted as soon as it is opened. If she writes to you, it will only be to tell you she thinks you\u2019re a dick, and that you should never contact her again. Don\u2019t be overly sexual. You won\u2019t make her want to meet you for sex, you\u2019ll send her running in the other direction.<\/p>\n

Example #2<\/b>
\nMy name is Bob and I was hoping to get to know you. I\u2019m an accountant and work long hours and get really lonely, but I haven\u2019t had any luck meeting women in bars. When I\u2019m not at work, I usually spend my free time playing video games and golf. I\u2019m really shy and quiet, so this is hard for me, but I\u2019d like to meet you if you think maybe you\u2019d be interested.<\/i><\/p>\n

* Boooooooring! Not only is Bob a total snooze, he\u2019s also got low self-esteem. These are two of the worst possible things you could be when trying to get women interested in sleeping with you. <\/p>\n

Example #3<\/b>
\nUR the hottest bitch on dis site. If u want a good time in bed, I\u2019m ur man. Dont be shy, u know why ur here. Whnevr u want to call me, IM ready to go.<\/i><\/p>\n

* He referred to a woman he wants to sleep with as a bitch. She\u2019s already pissed off and hitting delete. And if that didn\u2019t do the trick, the horrible grammar and chat-speak will do the trick.
\n 
\n\"ScamBanner\"<\/a>
\n <\/p>\n

Getting It Right<\/h3>\n

These intro emails were written by testers that know how it\u2019s done. All of these guys had response rates of 90% or higher, so it\u2019s in your best interest to follow their lead.<\/p>\n

Example #1<\/b>
\nWhen I saw your profile, I knew that I had to write to you. Your blue eyes and dark hair are so striking, and your smile is magnetic. I found myself smiling back! I also loved your description, and why you\u2019re on the site. I have so much respect for a woman with a career she loves and the type of ambition you seem to have. If you\u2019re interested, I\u2019d love to take you out for a drink this weekend.<\/i><\/p>\n

* Notice that he refers directly to her looks, but not in a sexual way. He also talks about what she wrote, proving that he read it. It\u2019s interested, respectful, and personal. All things women love.<\/p>\n

Example #2<\/b>
\nOh my God, it\u2019s a jungle out here! So many guys on this site acting like animals. I can\u2019t believe what I\u2019ve just seen. If you\u2019d like to meet up with a guy who knows how to have a good time while still behaving like a kind and decent human being, I\u2019d love to meet you. You seem to have a good head on your shoulders, and your descriptions of some of the horrible dates you\u2019ve had left me wondering if I should be laughing hysterically or sending you a sympathy card. It\u2019s good to see that your sense of humor is still intact. Maybe I can make you laugh for better reasons.<\/i><\/p>\n

* This guy empathizes with the crap women put up with on sex dating sites. He compliments her writing style, making it personal. He uses a sense of humor while still sounding intelligent. All of this will pretty much ensure that he gets laid.<\/p>\n

Example #3<\/b>
\nHey! When I saw your profile, I was stunned by how much we have in common. I\u2019m a pre-med student, too, so I totally understand the type of obligations you\u2019re fulfilling. We\u2019ve both got crazy busy schedules, but let\u2019s make some time for fun. I\u2019m pretty sure we\u2019ve both earned it!<\/i><\/p>\n

* Pay attention to how he points out what they have in common. This will make him feel familiar to her before they\u2019ve ever met. He insinuates that they\u2019ll have fun together, which actually plants a subconscious seed that she\u2019ll have a great time if she chooses to go out with him. He\u2019s not pushy or sexual, and expresses understanding and empathy. Done deal.<\/p>\n

In short, be confident, funny, and intelligent. Don\u2019t be overtly sexual, rude, or ignorant sounding. These tips are so simple, but most guys don\u2019t follow them, and most guys don\u2019t get laid. Break the pattern, and you\u2019ll stand out from the crowd.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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