{"id":64,"date":"2014-11-26T00:33:01","date_gmt":"2014-11-26T00:33:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=64"},"modified":"2014-11-29T04:47:59","modified_gmt":"2014-11-29T04:47:59","slug":"chapter4-choosing-the-right-sex-buddy-site-profile-picture","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/chapter4-choosing-the-right-sex-buddy-site-profile-picture\/","title":{"rendered":"Chapter 4 \u2013 Choosing the Right Sex Buddy Site Profile Picture"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"ChoosingI hear from men all the time who tell me that they aren\u2019t getting laid on sex buddy sites, despite having a killer profile and spending a lot of time and care on crafting the perfect first contact messages. When I ask them why they think this is, nine times out of ten, the guys say that they think they\u2019re just not attractive enough. Before I\u2019ve even seen a picture of the dude, I can tell them with nearly 100% certainty that this is not the case. You don\u2019t have to be a stud. Nearly any guy can get laid on the right sex buddy dating sites.<\/span>
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Using Profile Pictures that Appeal to Women\u2019s Superficiality<\/h3>\n

Yes, women are superficial. They are every bit as superficial as men when it comes to selecting sex partners, despite their protests that they\u2019re not! You might be saying to yourself, \u201cBut you just told me that you don\u2019t have to be a stud to get laid, and now you\u2019re telling me that women are superficial! Which is it?\u201d It\u2019s both, my friend. I said that women are every bit as superficial as men, but I did not say that they are superficial in the same ways. There\u2019s a huge difference in what women and men look for when they\u2019re trying to find an open relationship.<\/p>\n

We all know what guys are looking for. You want a chick with a hot body and a pretty face. What guy doesn\u2019t? But women aren\u2019t necessarily hung up on their sex buddies being exceedingly handsome or having the best gym body. So let\u2019s cut to the chase and reveal the real reason you\u2019re not having any luck with online sex dating.<\/p>\n

You\u2019re Using the Wrong Profile Pictures<\/h3>\n

When guys tell me they\u2019re too ugly to get laid, I ask to see the profile pictures they\u2019re using. Inevitably, when I get the pictures, I have the answer to why they\u2019re not hooking up, and it isn\u2019t their looks! In order to make good decisions about your profile pictures, you have to understand what women are looking for. <\/p>\n

\u2022 Excellent hygiene and grooming
\n\u2022 Sharply dressed
\n\u2022 Smiling, friendly face
\n\u2022 Confident
\n\u2022 Knows how to have fun<\/b><\/p>\n

There is never, ever an exception to this rule. You will never meet a woman, read her this list, and have her say that one of those things isn\u2019t attractive to her. So your profile pictures should reflect all of these things. If they don\u2019t, you now know why you\u2019re not finding sex buddies. Update those pictures, stat.<\/p>\n

Make sure your hair looks good, any facial hair you might have is neatly groomed, and that you don\u2019t have grimy fingernails or stains on your clothing. You might not even notice your fingernails, but if you\u2019re sipping a soda and you\u2019ve got a line of dirt under your thumbnail, every woman who sees that picture will notice it and be turned off. You should also be dressed to impress. Women get hot and bothered by a man in a tux or a great suit, so if you\u2019ve got one, flaunt it. It\u2019s also okay to have pictures where you\u2019re dressed casually, as long as your casual wear isn\u2019t sloppy and it\u2019s fashionable. This means no freebie radio station t-shirts or a polo shirt with your company logo that fit you before you lost thirty pounds.
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\nUse a picture that is clear and in focus. Look at the camera and smile. Portray confidence by sitting or standing up straight, and open body language. These things make you look friend and approachable to women. They are more likely to feel like you\u2019re trustworthy, too, which means they\u2019re much more likely to go to bed with you. Women don\u2019t want to have sex with a stranger unless they feel confident that the guy isn\u2019t going to turn out to be creepy or dangerous.<\/p>\n

Women also think men are hot when they\u2019re fun loving, having hobbies, and look like they have an interesting life. No matter what kind of guy you are, you can portray this in your pictures. Travel photos, outdoor adventures like river rafting, surfing, bicycling, sports shots, and pictures with your dog are all great bets. Just let her have a glimpse of how you have fun.<\/p>\n

The Biggest Mistakes Men Make with Profile Pictures<\/b><\/p>\n

\u2022 Crotch Shots
\n\u2022 Can\u2019t Tell What They Look Like
\n\u2022 Group Pics
\n\u2022 Sloppy
\n\u2022 Don\u2019t Show Personality<\/b><\/p>\n

When you look through men\u2019s profile pictures on any sex buddy site, you\u2019ll see hundreds of crotch shots. Men think that just because a woman is looking for casual sex, whipping out their dick on the internet is a good way to get their attention. This is a terrible approach, and it all but guarantees that you\u2019ll never meet anyone. Women think this is crass and disgusting behavior, the opposite of sexy. So keep your junk in your pants until she\u2019s unzipping your fly.<\/p>\n

You\u2019ll also want to avoid using pictures that are blurry, out of focus, or too far away for a woman to get a good feel for what you really look like. If she can\u2019t see your face clearly, she can\u2019t tell if you\u2019re her type, and she isn\u2019t likely to contact you. Group pictures are out of the question on sex dating sites. Women want to see you, not your friends and family. Plus, how many of those people would be thrilled to know that their face shows up in your sex dating profile? Just don\u2019t do it. Save them for your Facebook page. As covered above, appearance matters, so don\u2019t ever use pictures that make you look sloppy. No ratty tees and sweatpants. No disheveled hair or three days in between shaving shots. If your pictures don\u2019t show personality, you\u2019ll look boring and dull. That means you need to stay out of the JC Penney photo studios and take your pictures in your natural habitat.<\/p>\n

With the right profile pictures, you\u2019ll have no trouble attracting women. There will always be men more handsome than you. Even celebrities face that reality. It doesn\u2019t matter. What matters is that when you know what women really find attractive, you have a huge advantage over 99% of your competition.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

I hear from men all the time who tell me that they aren\u2019t getting laid on sex buddy sites, despite having a killer profile and spending a lot of time and care on crafting the perfect first contact messages. When I ask them why they think this is, nine times out of ten, the guys […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":85,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[4],"tags":[21,17,11,25,10,12,23,24,8,14,9,22],"class_list":["post-64","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-guide","tag-best-sex-buddy-sites","tag-common-profile-mistakes","tag-find-a-sex-buddy","tag-first-impression","tag-meet-a-sex-buddy","tag-open-relationships","tag-picture-is-worth-1000-words","tag-profile-picture","tag-sex-buddy-dating","tag-sex-buddy-profiles","tag-sex-buddy-sites","tag-top-sex-buddy-sites"],"aioseo_notices":[],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=64"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":343,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/64\/revisions\/343"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/85"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=64"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=64"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=64"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}