{"id":61,"date":"2014-11-26T00:31:27","date_gmt":"2014-11-26T00:31:27","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=61"},"modified":"2014-11-29T04:21:48","modified_gmt":"2014-11-29T04:21:48","slug":"chapter2-profiles-that-attract-women-looking-for-open-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/chapter2-profiles-that-attract-women-looking-for-open-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Chapter 2 \u2013 Online Profiles That Attract Only Women Looking for Open Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"OnlineYour profile is your introduction to every potential sex buddy you will ever find online<\/span>. Because it is the first impression of you that these ladies receive, you\u2019ve got to make it good, or it will be the ONLY impression of you they\u2019ll ever have. There are several components that go into creating a good casual dating profile. Some of these points are good rules of thumb for anyone creating an online dating profile, and others are specific to attracting only the women on these site who are looking for open relationships. Since you\u2019re not trying to appeal to all women, it is of the utmost importance that you pay special attention to following the guidelines that will make it alluring to just the women who want sex buddies.<\/p>\n

Before we delve into the finer point of what makes a perfect profile when you\u2019re trying to meet sex buddies, let\u2019s talk about what not to do. Well over 80% of all guys on open relationship sites have terrible profiles. Not only is it good for a laugh when you read through the crap that they\u2019re posting, it\u2019s also very good news for guys like you. You\u2019re going to know exactly how to create a fantastic profile, and when you put it against the backdrop of idiocy filling the vast majority of the site, it\u2019s going to make you look even better. <\/p>\n

Look at these examples of real profiles I pulled from sex buddy dating sites, and see if you can figure out where these guys went wrong:<\/strong><\/p>\n

lookin 4hotties 2score. I\u2019ve got 9inches of rock hard cock and I know how 2 uze it. I\u2019ll fuck you so hard you won\u2019t wlk str8 for a week. When ur ready 4 a real man, hit me up. UR pussy will be glad u did.<\/i><\/p>\n

Or how about this one\u2026<\/p>\n

Ever since my divorce, I\u2019ve been lonely and cynical about women. In fact, this is why I\u2019ve sworn off relationships entirely. I know that I will never get what I want, so from here on out, I am only in it for the sex. If you\u2019ve reached the point where you have no faith left in humanity, and you know that relationships only lead to heartache and pain, then we can commiserate. To be clear, I am ONLY interested in sex. I am not looking for a wife, or a girlfriend, or even a friend. In fact, I don\u2019t want to know anything about you other than whether or not you like to give head.<\/i><\/p>\n

 
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These are terrible profiles. The authors of these profiles screwed up in just about every conceivable way. Here\u2019s how:<\/p>\n

In the first profile,<\/strong> the guy seems practically illiterate due to his substitution of chat-speak for proper spelling. This is only an acceptable form of communication if you\u2019re still in high school. Second, he doesn\u2019t share anything about himself other than the (doubtful) measurements of his junk. Third, he is sexually crass. All three of these things turn women off. <\/p>\n

The second profile<\/strong> is a mess for different reasons. First of all, the tone is all wrong. He sounds angry and depressed, which isn\u2019t exactly attractive. Second of all, he seems totally conflicted and like maybe he\u2019s not being totally honest about what he wants. He says no relationships, he only wants sex and doesn\u2019t want to know anything about the women, and also states that if a woman has had a bad relationship, they can commiserate. So which is it? It can\u2019t be both. The third screw up is his statement about not wanting to know anything about a woman except whether or not she likes to give head. It\u2019s disinterested and degrading. Just because a woman is interested in sex dating doesn\u2019t mean she wants to be treated like a sex toy. <\/p>\n

So what makes a sex dating post great?<\/span> And how can you make sure that it only appeals to women looking for open relationships without making yourself sound like a pig? Here are two real examples of profiles done right.<\/p>\n

My name is Josh, and I\u2019m interested in meeting women who have a great sense of humor and love life. I\u2019m a happy, laid back guy who loves to surf, hang out in bookstores, and as an aside, I teach salsa dancing (no joke!). I would hate to mislead anyone or cause hurt feelings, so I want to be up front in saying that I\u2019m not looking for a relationship. At least not in the traditional sense. So I\u2019m interested in meeting great women who also have busy, fulfilling lives, who want to get together without worrying that I\u2019ll fall in love with them. If you\u2019re looking for no strings with a guy who is goofy, kind, and respectful, you just found him.<\/i><\/p>\n

Ladies! Just for fun, I was scrolling through the guys\u2019 profiles on this site, and I feel like I should be using this space to apologize on behalf of my entire gender. Ugh! I suppose there\u2019s nothing I can do about a bunch of boneheads who couldn\u2019t pass fourth grade English showing you pictures of their genitals, but I promise not to be one of them. Maybe they think that when it comes to casual encounters, personality doesn\u2019t matter, but I have another theory. In my experience, the best casual encounters are always between people who like each other\u2019s personalities. Yes, it\u2019s true that I\u2019m not looking for love, but I still want to get to know you! If you think personality counts, and you want to actually enjoy the company of the people you sleep with, we\u2019re on the same page. Let\u2019s talk!<\/i><\/p>\n

This list will break down exactly what these guys did right, and you can use these tips to write the perfect profile that attracts only women looking for open relationships every time.<\/strong><\/p>\n

\u2022 Pay attention to spelling and grammar
\n\u2022 Let your personality shine through
\n\u2022 Share enough about yourself to seem like a real person
\n\u2022 Keep the tone light, friendly, and positive
\n\u2022 If you mention sex, do so in a way that isn\u2019t rude, degrading to women, or TMI
\n\u2022 Clearly state that you\u2019re not looking for a traditional relationship or love
\n\u2022 But make it clear that you like and respect women<\/p>\n

You\u2019re ready. Spend a little bit of time writing practice profiles before moving on to Step 3. Practice really does make perfect, and after a few trial runs, you\u2019ll have an awesome profile.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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