{"id":246,"date":"2015-05-05T22:00:30","date_gmt":"2015-05-05T22:00:30","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=246"},"modified":"2015-02-28T02:50:21","modified_gmt":"2015-02-28T02:50:21","slug":"never-get-attached-to-your-sex-buddy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/never-get-attached-to-your-sex-buddy\/","title":{"rendered":"Why You Should Never Get Attached To Your Sex Buddy"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"WhyThe sex buddy relationship is often considered the main goal of men not looking to settle down anytime soon. It means having sex whenever you want without having to worry about the pull and tugs of a relationship, and it\u2019s almost always on your own schedule. Now you can have all the fun without all the drama.<\/p>\n

For most men, having a no-strings-attached sex buddy<\/a> is the way to go, but what happens when you start getting a bit too attached to a sex buddy, maybe even feeling jealous when you see her out with other men? I mean, you already have great chemistry together, and you have to admit, she is a lot of fun. But it\u2019s just sex, right?<\/p>\n

You know you know it\u2019s not a good idea to get attached. Here\u2019s a little remind of why.
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\nIt can be emotionally draining<\/b>
\nTheoretically, you and your sex buddy should be completely void of any feelings. This is the time to have fun, try new things and learn a new move or two, but when feelings get involved, a sex buddy relationship can go south very quickly.<\/p>\n

Before you really get going with this type of relationship, it\u2019s best to sit down with this person and have a brief conversation over what to expect. You don\u2019t want her thinking you two are something when in fact, you\u2019re not so although these types of conversations are never really fun, sit down and discuss it.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t forget to take a minute and assess your own feelings as well. Having completely emotionless sex is possible, but you too have to be in the right emotional state in order for this to go well at all. If you\u2019re still sore over an ex-girlfriend or have recently experienced another emotionally traumatic event<\/a>, maybe you should stop and consider what you\u2019re getting into. If you\u2019ve ever had true romantic feelings for this woman, having emotionless sex might not be enough for you.<\/p>\n

The signals are all over<\/b>
\nHow often are you calling your sex buddy<\/a>? Once a week? Twice? Every other night? When you call, do you meet for dinner or do you go right to the bedroom?<\/p>\n

Most sex buddy relationships start out as casual relationships. You and this woman probably went on a few dates and when things were going well, you decided to sleep together and found the sex was way better than the dates. This is normal.<\/p>\n

What\u2019s not normal is continuing to go on dates after you two have had sex. This is an actual relationship, not a sex buddy one. If you continue to date after you two decide just to be sex buddies, you run the giant risk of getting attached to your partner, and that can be disastrous.<\/p>\n

Even if you have already established boundaries<\/a>, the act of going out together begins to negate those boundaries. You start thinking of her as more than an actual sex buddy, and when and if she decides to end the relationship, you might feel more hurt than you originally thought you would.<\/p>\n

Whatever you do, stick to the original boundaries or guidelines of your relationship. If you treat her as anything more than a sex buddy, she might freak out and end the relationship before you really get to enjoy it.<\/p>\n