{"id":237,"date":"2015-02-12T22:00:20","date_gmt":"2015-02-12T22:00:20","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=237"},"modified":"2014-12-06T04:10:55","modified_gmt":"2014-12-06T04:10:55","slug":"how-to-end-it-with-casual-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/how-to-end-it-with-casual-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How To End It With Your Casual Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-265 size-full\" title=\"How To End It With Your Casual Relationship\" src=\"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-To-End-It-With-Your-Casual-Relationship.jpg\" alt=\"How-To-End-It-With-Your-Casual-Relationship\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-To-End-It-With-Your-Casual-Relationship.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-To-End-It-With-Your-Casual-Relationship-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-To-End-It-With-Your-Casual-Relationship-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>When it comes time to end a casual relationship, you know it. The dates have perhaps gotten quieter and quieter or you find you\u2019re just not sexually compatible with this person. All of these are good reasons to end a casual relationship because <a href=\"http:\/\/forum.bodybuilding.com\/showthread.php?t=122516321\" target=\"_blank\">if it\u2019s time to go<\/a>, it\u2019s just time to go.<\/p>\n<p>Of course, you are not heartless, and you need to end the relationship if for no other reason than not having this person text you anymore. Need a good way to do it? Check out our tips for ending a casual relationship.<\/p>\n<h3>What To Do<\/h3>\n<p>There are a few different tactics you can try to break the ice and lead to an end to the relationship. Here\u2019s how.<\/p>\n<p><b>Approach #1 &#8211; Introduce it yourself:<\/b> The next time you\u2019re out for coffee or drinks, simply ask the other person, \u201cWhat are we?\u201d This forces the other person to give an answer before you can fully give yours. It might be that this person feels the same way. If so, she might be grateful you brought it up first.<\/p>\n<p>This is one of the preferred tactics because it let\u2019s you build up to the eventual letdown. The other person won\u2019t <a href=\"http:\/\/www.thefrisky.com\/2012-04-19\/6-tips-for-moving-on-after-you%E2%80%99ve-been-blindsided-by-a-breakup\/\" target=\"_blank\">feel so blindsided<\/a> by your feelings and will at least appreciate your honesty.<\/p>\n<p>Do not try to end a relationship at your home or hers. The other person probably won\u2019t want to cause a scene in a public place or have a long, intimate conversation with another person sitting only a few feet away.At a bar or coffee shop, you can pay for your drinks and head out as soon as things are officially settled.<\/p>\n<p><b>Approach #2 &#8211; I\u2019m going to be honest with you<\/b>: While it\u2019s been said that <a href=\"http:\/\/www.inc.com\/will-yakowicz\/honesty-is-not-the-best-policy.html\" target=\"_blank\">honesty is the best policy<\/a>, this tactic might be a little too forward, but it is nevertheless effective at getting the message across.<\/p>\n<p>While sitting at a coffee shop or bar, simply tell the other person your honest feelings. Take a deep breath and try to say what you really need in the nicest way possible. Don\u2019t accuse the other person of not being pretty, adventurous in bed or \u201cnot enough.\u201d Just tell her that although you like her, you just don\u2019t see the relationship progressing any further.<\/p>\n<p>This tactic is a little more forward, and it doesn\u2019t give the other person a chance to prepare for what you\u2019re about to say to them. That being said, you can\u2019t deny that this does get the message across without much fuss.<\/p>\n<p><b>Approach #3 &#8211; It\u2019s not you, it\u2019s me<\/b>: We\u2019ve all heard this one. It\u2019s a classic break up line, and it is certainly effective. You can always tell a woman that you are just not in the right place for a relationship or you\u2019re not ready to be serious.<\/p>\n<p>Though this tactic is often seen as disingenuous and fake, it will end a relationship just as quickly as it potentially started.<\/p>\n<p><center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"480\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bqVnBG_tn14\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/center><\/p>\n<h3>What Not To Do<\/h3>\n<p>Now that we\u2019ve discussed what to do, here are a few tips on what not to do:<\/p>\n<p><b>Approach #1 &#8211; Do not give her the silent treatment<\/b>: Even if the relationship was only casual, give this person the respect of formally ending the relationship. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.today.com\/parents\/mom-creates-ignore-no-more-app-get-teens-return-calls-1D80077385\" target=\"_blank\">Ignoring texts and phone calls<\/a> can only hurt you in the long run because you never know who this person might talk to down the line. She might spread rumors about your performance or equipment.<\/p>\n<p><b>Approach #2 &#8211; Texting \u201cit\u2019s over\u201d and leave it at that<\/b>: If you were to be fired from your job, is that the type of message you would want to receive? Even in casual relationships, it\u2019s good to give the other person closure and let them know for certain that it\u2019s over.<\/p>\n<p>Since this is a casual relationship, you don\u2019t have to write a novel or deliver any type of a speech. If both of you have been clear that this relationship was only physical, then this woman probably doesn\u2019t need to know every reason.<\/p>\n<p><b>Approach #3 &#8211; If anyone asks, it was a mutual decision to end it<\/b>: This goes back to the rumor mill. After ending the relationship, don\u2019t try to tell everyone you know and brag about being \u201con the market.\u201d Just keep your cool and move on with dignity.<\/p>\n<p>Remember, the key to <a href=\"http:\/\/www.mindbodygreen.com\/0-13488\/the-best-way-to-end-a-casual-relationship.html\" target=\"_blank\">ending a casual relationship<\/a> is not to burn bridges. You two might find yourselves in other social situations, and your history will only make these meetings uncomfortable. Be honest and direct with the other person, but never cruel.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"bloglnk\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adulthookup.com\/dating\/allaboutlove2\/88822\/Sexbuddyguide-blog-endingcasualrelationship-AH\" target=\"_blank\">:: Special Offer For Our Readers Free Membership On: Adult Hookup ::<\/a><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>When it comes time to end a casual relationship, you know it. The dates have perhaps gotten quieter and quieter or you find you\u2019re just not sexually compatible with this person. All of these are good reasons to end a casual relationship because if it\u2019s time to go, it\u2019s just time to go. 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