{"id":22,"date":"2014-11-25T20:30:01","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T20:30:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=22"},"modified":"2014-11-30T03:48:35","modified_gmt":"2014-11-30T03:48:35","slug":"how-to-be-perfect-sex-buddy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/how-to-be-perfect-sex-buddy\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Be the Perfect Sex Buddy"},"content":{"rendered":"

\"HowYou\u2019ve got a great sex buddy. She\u2019s hot. She\u2019s great in bed. She\u2019s cool to be around. And she doesn\u2019t want a relationship. You\u2019re probably feeling like you\u2019ve hit the sex buddy jackpot! If you want to keep her coming back for more, you need to step up your game. Girls like that don\u2019t come along every day, and if you\u2019re not on top of the situation, she\u2019ll move on quickly. Here are some tips to help you be the perfect sex buddy<\/a>.<\/p>\n

Make Sure She Has a Great Time in the Sack<\/h3>\n

Sex is what it\u2019s all about, right? That means that she\u2019s not going to have a whole lot of motivation to stick around if the sex is bad. First and foremost, make sure she\u2019s getting off. If your skills aren\u2019t what they could be, improve them. Read tutorials<\/a>. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn\u2019t like. If she\u2019s not happy with your performance, don\u2019t get defensive. Thank her for being honest and ask her what would make it better for her. Women rarely have men ask for this sort of feedback, so she might be taken off guard at first, but she\u2019ll really appreciate it that you care enough to make sure that the sex is good for her.<\/p>\n

Show Appreciation for Her Sexual Skills<\/h3>\n

If she gives the best head you\u2019ve ever experienced, tell her. Moan your appreciation to her. Tell her how good it feels. If she takes the reigns and watching her dominate you is totally hot, tell her how sexy she looks and how much it turns you on. Make her feel like a total sex goddess, then watch what happens. Chances are higher than not that she\u2019s going to get even more turned on, and she\u2019ll be inspired to crank it up another notch. Inspiring her to feel like the bomb in bed can only benefit you. After you\u2019ve done the deed, say thanks. Let her know you had a great time, and you hope she did, too. These parting words will stick with her and make it all the more likely that she\u2019s going to want to come back for more.<\/p>\n

Keep Her Interest In Between Times Seeing Each Other<\/h3>\n

A common mistake that a lot of guys make is not contacting their sex buddies unless it\u2019s to set up a time to get together. While it\u2019s true that you don\u2019t want to call and text her incessantly, you also can\u2019t ignore her entirely unless you want to meet for sex. If you do, she\u2019s going to get totally bored and write you off. Make contact at least once a week. Send her a flirty text, detailing something you\u2019d like to do to her. Forward her something you read online that you know she\u2019d think is hilarious. Keep it light. You\u2019re not sending her love notes. You\u2019re just letting her know she\u2019s on your radar and keeping her interested. Sexy or funny should be the vibe of the bulk of your communications. Don\u2019t get deep or heavy.<\/p>\n

Don\u2019t Make Her Feel Like You\u2019re Stalking Her<\/h3>\n

On the flipside of the guys who disappear entirely when they\u2019re not getting together for sex are the ones who get a little bit stalker-ish. Remember, this chick is your sex buddy, not your girlfriend<\/a>. She\u2019s probably not going to appreciate it if you start calling or texting her all day, and she definitely won\u2019t like it if you take it a step further and start showing up at her house or work unannounced. It\u2019s not going to make her hot for you, it\u2019s going to give her the creeps and make her feel like she needs to get rid of you, stat.<\/p>\n

 
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