{"id":18,"date":"2014-11-25T20:33:29","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T20:33:29","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=18"},"modified":"2014-11-30T03:19:26","modified_gmt":"2014-11-30T03:19:26","slug":"prevent-sex-buddy-from-asking-for-relationship","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/prevent-sex-buddy-from-asking-for-relationship\/","title":{"rendered":"How to Prevent Your Sex Buddy from Asking for a Relationship"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-117 size-full\" title=\"How to Prevent Your Sex Buddy from Asking for a Relationship\" src=\"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-to-Prevent-Your-Sex-Buddy-from-Asking-for-a-Relationship.jpg\" alt=\"How to Prevent Your Sex Buddy from Asking for a Relationship\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-to-Prevent-Your-Sex-Buddy-from-Asking-for-a-Relationship.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-to-Prevent-Your-Sex-Buddy-from-Asking-for-a-Relationship-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/How-to-Prevent-Your-Sex-Buddy-from-Asking-for-a-Relationship-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>It\u2019s every guy\u2019s worst nightmare. You\u2019ve got a good sex buddy thing going, and then, seemingly out of the blue, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.askmen.com\/dating\/doclove_400\/425_relationship_expert.html\" target=\"_blank\">you\u2019re being asked for a relationship<\/a>. The thing is, it never really happens out of the blue, as much as you might like to believe that you had no role in it. Chances are high that you were setting yourself up for this moment without even realizing it. The good news is that there are ways to make sure you don\u2019t find yourself in this situation, and they\u2019re not difficult to follow. Here are some <SPAN STYLE=\"background-color: #ffffcc\">tips to help prevent your sex buddy from asking you for a relationship<\/span> that every guy should know.<\/p>\n<h3>Be Clear That You Don\u2019t Want a Relationship<\/h3>\n<p>It might seem obvious to you, but it needs to be said, clearly and often. Before you ever hook up, this topic should be discussed. It\u2019s the only way to be sure that you really want what you\u2019re about to get into. And then, on a fairly regular basis, <a href=\"http:\/\/articles.chicagotribune.com\/2012-05-28\/features\/ct-ae-0528-amy-20120528_1_marriage-tradition-buddy\" target=\"_blank\">make sure that she realizes your feelings haven\u2019t changed.<\/a> It\u2019s not like you have to say, \u201cOh, FYI, still don\u2019t want a relationship!\u201d Just find more natural ways to work it into the conversation. For example, you could say something about your buddy\u2019s messy relationship, and say something like, \u201cI\u2019m so glad we didn\u2019t go down that road. I like things the way we\u2019re doing it much better.\u201d<\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t Lead Her On Emotionally<\/h3>\n<p>Some guys toy with leading on their sex buddies emotionally, because they think that it will keep them coming back for sex regularly. It might, but it usually comes with some very undesirable side effects. It\u2019s not like you can hint at the fact that you <a href=\"http:\/\/www.livescience.com\/33720-13-scientifically-proven-signs-love.html\" target=\"_blank\">might be falling for her<\/a> and then feel shocked when she tells you that she loves you and really wants to take things to the next level. If she\u2019s been entertaining any secret thoughts of a relationship with you and you start saying or doing things that make her think you\u2019re considering it, too, things are going to get messy quickly.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/M2aeAIvOoRM\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t Take Her On Typical Dates<\/h3>\n<p>This is one of the most common mistakes guys make with their sex buddies. If the girl is really cool, you might enjoy her company and start extending your time together to outside of the bedroom. In your mind, she might <a href=\"http:\/\/www.spike.com\/articles\/71rloo\/the-top-seven-ways-to-turn-a-friend-into-a-friend-with-benefits\" target=\"_blank\">just be a friend you happen to have sex<\/a> with, so it makes perfect sense. But in her mind, she might think that you\u2019ve moved away from being straight up sex buddies and are now dating. You know. Like a couple. And if you\u2019re dating her, eventually she\u2019s going to start to consider it a relationship. There are some women out there who can balance this, but not many, so if you have any inclination at all to try it out, you may want to reconsider.<\/p>\n<h3>Don\u2019t Share Too Much About Your Life<\/h3>\n<p>I\u2019m not suggesting you shouldn\u2019t tell your sex buddy anything at all about you. That would be kind of weird. But keep it fairly surface and simple. If she knows your entire life story, what your relationship with your family is like, all about your friends, your job, and your <a href=\"http:\/\/www.complex.com\/pop-culture\/2013\/01\/the-50-greatest-breakfast-cereals-of-all-time\/\" target=\"_blank\">favorite breakfast cereal<\/a>, she knows too much. Not because you\u2019ve got any super classified information that she\u2019s going to use for nefarious purposes, but because this sort of familiarity breeds a sense of intimacy. The more she knows about you, the closer she\u2019s going to feel to you, and it is that sort of closeness that encourages feeling of love and the desire for a committed relationship. So keep it light. Instead of telling her you\u2019ve been really down because your favorite uncle is dying, tell her about the new dog park you discovered with your puppy last week.<\/p>\n<h3>It All Comes Down to Clear and Unmoving Boundaries<\/h3>\n<p>All of this is to say that the best way to prevent your sex buddy from asking for a relationship is to create clear and solid boundaries. These boundaries should be built from bricks, not rubber bands. If they stretch and bend to accommodate your moods and whims from day to day, it\u2019s going to lead to confusion. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.eharmony.com\/dating-advice\/about-you\/eight-signs-you-may-not-be-ready-for-a-relationship\/#.VHqMoocmC_8\" target=\"_blank\">When you keep the rules and expectations consistent<\/a>, your sex buddy will be clear on where you stand, which will make the possibility of her asking for a relationship much less likely. Make it clear that you\u2019re not the least bit interested in having a relationship. Mixed signals have led to the sinking of more than one formerly solid ship. Keep the focus of the relationship on sex. Be friendly, but keep emotions and intimacy out of it. Your sex buddy relationship will stay on track and thrive.<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"bloglnk\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adulthookup.com\/dating\/allaboutlove2\/88822\/Sexbuddyguide-blog-sexbuddyasksformore-AH\" target=\"_blank\">:: Special Offer For Our Readers: Free Membership On Adult Hookup ::<\/a><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>It\u2019s every guy\u2019s worst nightmare. You\u2019ve got a good sex buddy thing going, and then, seemingly out of the blue, you\u2019re being asked for a relationship. The thing is, it never really happens out of the blue, as much as you might like to believe that you had no role in it. 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