{"id":16,"date":"2014-11-25T20:35:59","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T20:35:59","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=16"},"modified":"2014-11-30T00:43:02","modified_gmt":"2014-11-30T00:43:02","slug":"relationship-status-open","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/relationship-status-open\/","title":{"rendered":"Relationship Status: Open! &#8211; Social Networking Tips for Maintaining a Sex Buddy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-113 size-full\" title=\"Relationship Status Open! Social Networking Tips for Maintaining a Sex Buddy\" src=\"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Relationship-Status-Open-Social-Networking-Tips-for-Maintaining-a-Sex-Buddy.jpg\" alt=\"Relationship Status Open! Social Networking Tips for Maintaining a Sex Buddy\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Relationship-Status-Open-Social-Networking-Tips-for-Maintaining-a-Sex-Buddy.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Relationship-Status-Open-Social-Networking-Tips-for-Maintaining-a-Sex-Buddy-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Relationship-Status-Open-Social-Networking-Tips-for-Maintaining-a-Sex-Buddy-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>When you\u2019re new to <a href=\"http:\/\/en.wikipedia.org\/wiki\/Social_network\" target=\"_blank\">social networking <\/a>for casual sex, the main focus is on meeting women and hooking up. But what comes next? Hooking up with a sex buddy just once, then looking for a new one will eventually mean that you\u2019re going longer and longer in between sex. Your goal should be to meet several women you like having sex with, and then to maintain connections with all of them. That way, whenever you\u2019re in the mood to get it on, you\u2019ll have someone to call. When you find a <a href=\"http:\/\/www.lovepanky.com\/sensual-tease\/seduction\/how-to-get-a-fuck-buddy\" target=\"_blank\">great sex buddy<\/a>, you\u2019ll want to maintain it in order to keep the sex going for as long as possible, and using the same social networking you used to find her makes it simple to keep yourself on the radar. Since it\u2019s a totally different ballgame than maintaining a relationship with a girlfriend, it\u2019s easy to feel at loose ends. Here\u2019s how you go about maintaining the sex buddies you meet through social networking.<\/p>\n<h3>Use the Site Where You Met to Keep in Touch<\/h3>\n<p>It\u2019s important to remember that women are contacted by men on social networking sites at a much higher rate than men are contacted by women. This means that if you want to stay at the top of a good sex buddy\u2019s favorite hookups list, you\u2019ve got to maintain a presence so she doesn\u2019t think you\u2019ve lost interest. Otherwise, she\u2019ll forget all about you, and move on to the guys who are more proactive. The site where you originally met provides a great way to keep in touch. After you\u2019ve hooked up, wait a day or two, then <a href=\"http:\/\/www.loveshack.org\/forums\/romantic\/dating\/310717-hook-up-follow-up\" target=\"_blank\">send her a follow-up message <\/a>to let her know you had a great time and would like to get together again. Don\u2019t just do this after the first time, make sure you follow up after every encounter. Women like to feel appreciated, so if you liked the sex, she needs to get that message loud and clear.<\/p>\n<h3>Turn Her On with Video Chat<\/h3>\n<p>A lot of <a href=\"http:\/\/www.askmen.com\/top_10\/dating\/top-10-hookup-websites.html\" target=\"_blank\">sex dating sites<\/a> offer video chats to members. Be sure to take advantage of this feature. It\u2019s a great way to keep things hot in between hookups. Turn your sex buddy on with some spicy video action. The hornier you can make her, the better. She\u2019ll be dying to get off camera and get into your bed for the real deal.<\/p>\n<h3>Pictures Work, Too<\/h3>\n<p>Video chat may offer a chance for hotter action than pictures, but don\u2019t underestimate the power of x-rated photos. You don\u2019t want to put these types of picture in your profile, because most women don\u2019t want to see that kind of thing before they hook up with a guy, but after you\u2019ve actually had sex, the game changes. If she\u2019s already seen what\u2019s hiding inside your underwear, assuming she had a good time with it, a picture should make her all hot and bothered. Be sure to caption it with something like, \u201cThinking about the last time we were together.\u201d Let her know that whatever she did was good for you, and that you\u2019re fantasizing about having sex with her again. You can also mix it up, and send her the occasional nice face shot of you smiling, too.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<center><iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/Y7o66t9KGTE\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><\/center><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Be Engaging and Entertaining<\/h3>\n<p>All of the sexy stuff is great, but you\u2019ve got to balance it out. Even though you\u2019re not looking for a traditional relationship, women still want to feel like they know their sex buddies. So mix things up, and send her an occasional note or chat that isn\u2019t focused entirely on sex. Keep her <a href=\"http:\/\/www.girlsaskguys.com\/relationships\/q575417-how-do-keep-girl-engaged-over-text-over-winter\" target=\"_blank\">engaged and entertained<\/a>, and she\u2019s a lot more likely to want to hop into bed with her. The two traits that women find sexiest in men are intelligence and a sense of humor. Hopefully you\u2019ve got one or the other, and if you have both, all the better. If you can impress her with your smarts or make her laugh hysterically, you\u2019ll stand out above all of the other schmucks bombarding her with asinine emails. Trust me, most of the guys contacting her will act like complete and total jackasses, so it won\u2019t take much to come across as impressive by comparison.<\/p>\n<h3>Consistency is Key<\/h3>\n<p>Content is important, of course, but consistency is also a key component. 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