{"id":11,"date":"2014-11-25T20:39:51","date_gmt":"2014-11-25T20:39:51","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/?p=11"},"modified":"2014-11-29T22:31:45","modified_gmt":"2014-11-29T22:31:45","slug":"ways-to-make-sex-buddy-regret-breakingup","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/ways-to-make-sex-buddy-regret-breakingup\/","title":{"rendered":"Ways to Make Your Ex Sex Buddy Regret Breaking Up"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignleft wp-image-104 size-full\" title=\"Ways to Make Your Ex Sex Buddy Regret Breaking Up\" src=\"http:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Ways-to-Make-Your-Ex-Sex-Buddy-Regret-Breaking-Up.jpg\" alt=\"Ways to Make Your Ex Sex Buddy Regret Breaking Up\" width=\"400\" height=\"300\" srcset=\"https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Ways-to-Make-Your-Ex-Sex-Buddy-Regret-Breaking-Up.jpg 400w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Ways-to-Make-Your-Ex-Sex-Buddy-Regret-Breaking-Up-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/sexbuddyguide.com\/blog\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/11\/Ways-to-Make-Your-Ex-Sex-Buddy-Regret-Breaking-Up-250x187.jpg 250w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 400px) 100vw, 400px\" \/>Usually, if a sex buddy breaks up with you, it\u2019s best to just deal with the initial <a href=\"http:\/\/www.netdoctor.co.uk\/sex_relationships\/facts\/dumped.htm\" target=\"_blank\">sting of getting dumped<\/a> and move on. The best way to move on is to start hooking up with new sex buddies as soon as possible, and just totally put her out of your mind. But sometimes the sex was just so good, that you\u2019d do nearly anything to get her to come back. If you want to make your ex sex buddy <a href=\"http:\/\/www.yourtango.com\/proconnect\/201085332\/10-post-breakup-decisions-youre-sure-regret\" target=\"_blank\">regret breaking up with you<\/a>, there are a few ways to go about it.<\/p>\n<h3>Be Too Busy to Talk To Her<\/h3>\n<p>Women are funny creatures. Unlike men, who would usually be totally thrilled to never hear from someone again after they break up with them, a lot of women like to maintain contact with their ex. If she goes down the road of wanting to maintain a friendship, you have the perfect opportunity to make her regret breaking up with her. Any time she texts or calls you, answer her, cheerfully and kindly, but make it clear you don\u2019t have time to have a conversation. If you ignore her completely, she\u2019ll just give up. If you indulge her in the conversations, she\u2019ll assume you\u2019re all good and ready to be friends. But this middle ground will drive her nuts. This is especially effective if you can sound like you\u2019re perfectly happy and can drop hints that the reason you\u2019re so busy is that you\u2019re with another woman. Even though she was the one that ditched you, you\u2019ll <a href=\"http:\/\/www.wikihow.com\/Appear-More-Attractive-to-Women\" target=\"_blank\">seem much more appealing<\/a> if she thinks another woman has your attention.<\/p>\n<h3>If You Are Hooking Up with Someone Else Make Sure She Knows<\/h3>\n<p>Don\u2019t tell her outright, of course. That would probably backfire. But if you know where she always grabs coffee on her lunch break, and oops! Just happen to bump into her while you\u2019re with another woman, all the better. You don\u2019t even have to be having sex with the woman. Have a hot co-worker? Offer to buy her a coffee. Whatever. You\u2019re sex buddy doesn\u2019t have to know the whole story. You just need to create the illusion that you are moving on and happily so. If you have any mutual friends, you can always casually toss a bone into the rumor mill by telling the person something (confidentially, of course) that you know they\u2019ll take back to your ex sex buddy right away. Remember, the surest way to get someone to repeat something is to tell them not to tell. Trust me, she\u2019ll hear about it by the next day.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<br \/>\n<center><br \/>\n<iframe loading=\"lazy\" width=\"640\" height=\"360\" src=\"\/\/www.youtube.com\/embed\/bSs5qL85cSc\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen><\/iframe><br \/>\n<\/center><br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h3>Lay a Guilt Trip on Her<\/h3>\n<p>Be sad, but understanding. Guilt trips don\u2019t work if you seem angry. All anger will do is make her defensive. So leave anger out of the picture and just come across as sad and a little bit dejected. Tell her you completely understand. If you can subtly berate yourself, this is extra effective. She\u2019ll think you\u2019re trying to put on a brave front for her, and that she\u2019s actually hurt you even more deeply than you\u2019re letting on. She\u2019ll feel like crap!<\/p>\n<h3>Take a Vacation<\/h3>\n<p>If you can arrange it, taking a vacation within a week or so of her breaking things off with you. Lead her to believe that she would have been going with you if you\u2019d still been hooking up. If she texts you while you\u2019re away, text her back with a couple of awesome pictures so she sees what a great time you\u2019re having without her. She\u2019ll be kicking herself for ditching you.<\/p>\n<p>As you can see, there are a lot of ways to make an ex sex buddy regret breaking up with you. The key is to evoke pretty much any strong emotion except anger. Anger never works, but pretty much everything else does. Guilt and remorse work, because she\u2019ll feel like an awful person for hurting you. <a href=\"http:\/\/www.askmen.com\/dating\/curtsmith\/44_dating_advice.html\" target=\"_blank\">Jealousy is a fantastic motivator<\/a>. If she believes that other women want you, it will make you seem more desirable. This is especially true if she sees you with women who are at least as attractive, if not more attractive, than she is. If she sees you having a lot of fun without her, she\u2019ll feel nostalgic for the good times you did have, and she\u2019ll feel like she\u2019s missing out on something. But before you undertake any of this, get really clear about what your motivation is and what outcome you\u2019re hoping for. You may or may not decide that it\u2019s worth your effort. If you decide that it is, make it count! There\u2019s no point in doing it if you\u2019re not going to go all in. If you play your cards right, she\u2019ll be crawling back into your bed in no time, and there\u2019s nothing hotter than post breakup sex.<br \/>\n&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2 class=\"bloglnk\"><a href=\"http:\/\/www.adulthookup.com\/dating\/allaboutlove2\/88822\/Sexbuddyguide-blog-makesexbuddyregret-AH\" target=\"_blank\">:: Special Offer For Our Readers: Free Membership On Adult Hookup ::<\/a><\/h2>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Usually, if a sex buddy breaks up with you, it\u2019s best to just deal with the initial sting of getting dumped and move on. The best way to move on is to start hooking up with new sex buddies as soon as possible, and just totally put her out of your mind. 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